Showing posts with label Life Suggestion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life Suggestion. Show all posts

Friday, December 22, 2017

Canada 150th and A Beautiful Planet



Hello lovelies,

invited by Change.org, a world platform for change (for the better) and in the celebration of Canada 150th Anniversary.

150th anniversary of Canada. 2017 marks a significant moment in the History of Canada. 150 years ago, Quebec, Ontario, New Brunswick and Nova Scotia – united to create the Canadian Confederation, called the Dominion of Canada. ... Memorable events will be held throughout the year in Canada and throughout the world.

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The event was held on the 20th of December 2017, and I was pretty happy with the whole event, there are some delays in the starting but in the end, watching the movie, it is worth the wait. What is this movie I mentioned about? It's a movie about our planet, earth, "A Beautiful Planet".

After a short greeting, introduction and Q&A session from Canada Embassy representative like the Ambassador himself (do check out my instagram account @Carnellin), the movie start at around 7.30 and finished around 8.30 with the wraps and Q and A's again for after the movie.

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The theater is filled with medias and guests invited by Change.org and Canada's Embassy in Jakarta. And without further ado, the movie, "A Beautiful Planet" is played.

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Presented in awe-inspiring IMAX® and IMAX® 3D, “A Beautiful Planet,” narrated by 
ACADEMY AWARD® Winner, Jennifer Lawrence, gives moviegoers a never-before-seen
glimpse of Earth from space and provides an increased understanding of our planet and
galaxy. Made in cooperation with the National Aeronautics and Space Administration
(NASA), the film features stunning footage of our magnificent blue planet — and the effects
humanity has had on it over time — captured by the astronauts aboard the International Space
Station (ISS), a research lab, training facility and observatory, built in orbit by 16 countries
and powered by the sun.
From space, Earth blazes at night with the electric intensity of human expansion — a
direct visualization of our changing world. As startling representations of such change, the
deforestation in places like Madagascar and the Amazon, the nighttime scene of fracking fires
in the Gulf of Mexico, and the glacial melting in Greenland are all visible from the ISS. But it
is within our power to protect the planet. As we continue to explore and gain knowledge of
our galaxy, we also develop a deeper connection to the place we all call home.
“A Beautiful Planet” presents a breathtaking view of Earth with footage conceived, in
part, and shot by the astronauts aboard the ISS themselves; and through advanced computer.
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I'm sorry if these images is like blurred but it is actually a 3D movie, hence a 3D glasses is needed to see these pictures. I also put them on my instastory (many of the clips) which I find to be astonishing. I felt so small, like really, really small, like my presence as a being is, well, rather insignificant. Not to sound so depressed, but we are like so tiny, and we feel like our problems and our life was huge, God was probably like, no you're not. So instead of being too focused on life drama, let's take a big breath and see the universe, how great and big it is, yet everything will fall on its place. Just do our best, make the positive efforts and go with the flow.

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We have a beautiful planet to live in, enjoy and be very happy, as long as we keep in mind to not be greedy, be kind and remember to keep things as needed. The thing about greed is that it corrupt, it's just the way it is. We tend to be greedy instead of living our rights, the industry nowadays told us that. Being irresponsible and exploit the land more than we can give back is destroying our future.

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The earth shows their aging, through the raising heat. The needs for energy and our consumption is beyond the supply, we need new reliable energy with no or less radiation. Safe, plentiful and clean.

The image below is earth is the view of some cities in the world during night time. The lights are mesmerizing yet in the same time reminds me of how big the energy being used also.

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There are some dark places too like in North Korea, it does looks sad compared to the bright South Korea.

And about the energy, it's sun, Canada and many leading countries has started to use more solar energy for a better world ahead. Did we still have time? We hope so. By stop doing what's wrong and listen to the climate change.

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These are the view of the sun, up close. Imagine the immense heat and energy.

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Below, we see the magnet and those reflections of lights shown how our earth protects us from radiation. This planet is livable because of that, other planet are suffering the radiation, coldness and dryness hence no living being is possible. Only the earth that have all the right element, from temperature, water, protection from radiation and so on. So it is not a coincidence we can all live here, everything has meanings and purpose.

So here we are, living our life, remembering, that we all have meanings and purpose.

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Looking at the huge universe, looking at our life, looking at how fragile we are if suddenly something happen, either a star falls on the earth or perhaps the earth looses its balance. So we all needed each other, we need to took care each other, not just for us, but for the future too.

I'm looking at some of the newsletter given from the Canada Embassy, seems like they put so many efforts in the environment and as helping hand for humanitarian act. Hopefully, Canada continue as a country that encourage loving our planet with true, living way of life.

Do watch a clip of the movie at this link:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jbj302_mOeU

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Thank you so much Change.Org for having me during the event, this is one of the most popular platform to make petition, right now there's a lot of petition going on where you could make a change, bring impact, and perhaps like that one girl said, 'When the whole world is silent, even one voice becomes powerful.' Malala Yousafzai.

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And for Canada, Happy 150th Anniversary. Hope to someday visit this red maple leaf country. For sure, I want to see Quebec, where they shoot Goblin :D

Thank you everyone for reading this post, see you again soon.


Sunday, June 29, 2014

Eat and Travel in Europe Winter Wonderland

Hi everyone ^___^

Yes, I'm participating in "EAT and Travel With B Blog" Competition why? Because I'm a travel addict myself and I would love to share my experience as well. If you have an experience regarding eat and travel, please do participate and jotted down. Here's the details regarding the competition with BBlog Indonesia:

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(Just click HERE and you'll go straight to the facebook page of BBlog Indonesia.)

Now, hmm, like said, as a travel addict of course I've been to many places around the world, locally I've been to Bali, Jogjakarta, go on top of Mt.Bromo, canoeing at a beach in Bintan Island, indulging Milk Fishes in Semarang and many more. Outside Indonesia, I've been to the United States of America, visiting Hawaii, Los Angeles, San Diego, San Fransisco, Hollywood, and even cross the border at Tijuana, Mexico. And then, went to China a few times, Singapore, Malaysia, and then live in Singapore for more than 4 years, learn English at New Zealand, visit a friend in Perth, Australia. Enjoying Japan, a few times to Tokyo, Osaka, Kyoto, and Kobe, thanks to some beauty companies in Singapore for those trips to Japan. Went to Seoul, South Korea courtesy of Korea Tourism Board for a week, and went cruising sponsored by a very famous cruise company in Asia, and hmm, which of these experiences I want to share? I think I'll pick the one where I went to Europe with my sister, sponsored by one of the biggest traveling agency in UK.

A 9 days 8 nights tour to Netherlands, Germany, Austria, Italy, Switzerland, and France. I found this experience as unique and enriching at the same time, plus, this is my first time traveling together with my sister and just the two of us.

In this post, I'll share our experiences, tips and some fun facts as well. Hope you'll enjoy reading it!

Total traveling cost incl flights is around USD 2500

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We arrived at Schiphol after a 16 hours flight, fresh and happy because we are welcomed by a 0 degree Celsius temperature in the mid of January. The winter there is comfortable and oh well, perhaps because me and my sister did pick winter as our traveling time since it is the complete opposite from Jakarta, Indonesia. So we pretty much prep our self in the plane with all our jacket and coat on the carry on luggage.

Tips: Always finds out the temperature of the place you're going too and prepare your clothing attire only with a reputable brand. Once I went to Auckland in July wearing a polyester jacket, it was far from warmth, I'm shivering even when indoor.

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What do I do the minute I stepped out from the plane and done with the immigration? Try the local snack! It was french fries, it was so thick and juicy, crisp on the outside and delicious inside. This is a french fries should be. I wish I can eat it everyday ^__^

Since Indonesia is under Dutch for 350 years, some of the language we have are adopted from them, words such as kantor, parkir, gratis, and many more.

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Since our hotel is near to the airport, there's a free shuttle bus going back and forth daily. Inside the hotel there's a bunch of vending machines, haha! This is what I called instant gratification.

Do you know that you could learn about local favorites just by looking at their vending machines? Only 'famous' food are made into available for just about anytime. In Singapore most vending machines are for drinks, since that is the 'most wanted' items by the locals.

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I don't care how cold it was, I'm still a big fan of ice cream. Btw, do you know that January is the low season of traveling in Europe? So if you're on a budget and hate cramped in a crowded tourists locations, go on a low seasons and you'll feel like local.

Personally, I dislike having to queue or asking people to please take turn in taking pictures on a famous sites, by going on the low seasons, I don't have to do that and there's no queue either.

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Since we got some free time waiting for the other members of the tour to arrive, me and my sister are taking the times on our own, we took a long bath and a nap, those 16 hours flight is not so friendly to our joints. Tips: When going on a long haul flight, prepare yourself with skincare minis on your purse, the dry air will make your skin craves from some attention, you really don't want to get some instant wrinkles don't you?!
Plus,
drink plenty of water but not all at once, drink a small amount every now and then should help your body and skin.

After taking a break we are ready for some adventure on our on and went on shopping!!

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There's a big shop that sells winter attire, snacks, restaurants, pubs and bars. Everything can be purchase with Euro, in fact when in Europe, Euro is suffice for almost all the countries here. And since I'm traveling to several countries in Europe, I only need one visa, Schengen visa.

How to get a Schengen visa? Apply at the embassy where you'll be at the longest, so if let say you'll travel to France for 2 days, Germany 3 days and Italy for 4 days, then you should get the Schengen visa by applying at the embassy of Italy.

If you're traveling equally like 2 days on each country, then you should apply the visa at the embassy of the first country you're in.

Prepare all the document wisely and truthfully, answer all the questions needed and always apply at least a month before since sometime it need to be checked by more than one country.

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Back to Amsterdam, here's what it can offer,
Experience Amsterdam’s coffee shops, museums and cool, quirky boutiques. Wander along shady canals and pass gabled houses or hop on two wheels like the laid-back locals and bike through the centre of town.
Chill out while the coach follows the Rhine River, weaving through valleys dotted with castles and vineyards.

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On the next day, me and my sis continue to wander around on our own.
It was truly a beautiful city, picturesque in every angle, I love the fact that the people here enjoy bicycle more than cars, imagine the cool air, clean and safe city.

We like to wander off the beaten path, in fact I like to get lost. I did get lost once when in Perth, I was 16 and late at night, I took the wrong bus, and to make it worst, it is the last bus that day, luckily the bus driver is so kind and change his bus number so he can bring us back home, by this experience I know that there are still people out there whose genuinely kind and care about others, ever heard the saying, "World without strangers"?! If I go on a scheduled tour every day, I wont have a personal experience, I wont talk to the locals as much as I do when walk outside the group, I wont eat those yummy meat skewers outside a leather jacket factory in China with some factory workers who looked at me like I'm some kind of weirdos and then laugh together knowing that we share the same interest, their daily local food, funny how small things brings people closer, even when I'm not talking their language.

I remember explaining to a group of Japanese tourists in their senior years how I get there (Singapore, while traveling in 1997), we both spread our hands and yes, plane, we laugh at each other knowing that none of us speaks the language their opposite understood but we're still human with many abilities, we can speak with our body language.


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Beside human to human interact, I also enjoy the silent experience with the nature and surroundings. The city, the streets, the roads, they all have a story to tell, a story that you'll never understand until you're there. It could be the smell, it could be how you feel when traveling there.

On the image above,

isn't it amazing? It's like those images we've seen on postcards. Every time I look at that picture, I feel like I'm going back there, remembering everything, the cold air, the peace and comforts.

During traveling, I always pick a perfume to be used only when I was there, so every time I want to remember my experiences, I sprayed it on and it helps the memory to get back to that particular moments.


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While strolling around, we found this small cafe that sells pannekoek, we bought our self a banana and rum. The surely put a whole lotta rum in it.This is how the local beat the cold, by taking alcohol heehee. Almost everyone in our tour also takes alcohol on daily basis, even until they get drunk, only me and my sister are from Indonesia, the rest of them are from Australia, USA, New Zealand, Japan and South Africa. We're a group of people aged 18-35 and loves adventure.

Did you know that most travel agency now provide a private tour for a group? So you can get with your friends only or family or those who want to go with instead of going with a bunch of stranger. But again, meeting a bunch of stranger is not a bad idea after all. You'll broaden your network as well.


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We walk and walked until it was quite late and it's time to continue our journey. I love this kind of tour that only provide transportation and hotels, so there's plenty of time to wander around on our own.

Then, the next day, we went to.... Germany!

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Travelling south, pull into the home of the world-famous Oktoberfest, Munich - a city that blends traditional Bavarian culture with modern lifestyle.
Explore the heart of Munich’s old town with the crew, and head to Marienplatz. It’s a central gathering spot famous for the Glockenspiel - a Gothic clock, complete with 32 dancing figures and 43 chiming bells.
Get off the beaten track and onto Munich’s side streets with our Local Guide on a fun biking tour around the city – it’s a great way to see the sights.
Then, get a taste of tradition at a typical beer hall. Park yourself at a long wooden table, order yourself some hearty local food, like roasted pork knuckle, and quench your thirst with a stein of one of Germany’s 5000 brews.

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Yes, the local food, there's nothing more pleasing for me than to eat local food, but one particular food that really made my day, is the meal made by the wife of the innkeeper. A German Spaetzle, it's like a German's pasta dish. Chewy, a bit salty, delicious! It was quite simple, meats, spaetzle, peas and carrot but I found them irresistible, I've tried to recreate the meal by buying an instant spaetzle, it was far from that perfect meal I had in Sankt Goar.

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Yes, we made it to - the pretty, old-world village of St. Goar, complete with fairy tale castle and even a free-hanging cuckoo clock! Kick back with a glass of local wine.

There are some folk stories as well regarding mythical creatures at Lorelei Rocks, cool isn't it?! This fun 'facts' also made this travel even better.

Oh and the image above, yes, they are having a flood at that moment, so I have to missed a pleasing night stroll since they take safety seriously, we aren't allowed to even stay outside the inn for more than an hour.

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We left the inn and Sankt Goar at dawn, continuing our road trip to Austria, we visited Innsbruck.

Located near the mountain the temperature is cooler here, which means the skin feels dryer too. During this trip, I only use products that provide high hydrating properties that probably not suitable to be used in Jakarta. From skincare to body care, I made sure everything is made and suitable for a dry air. Daily maintenance is important, once the lips are chapped or the skin cracked because it's so dry, it already become painful, so start piling on moisturizers since you're on board.

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 Innsbruck, a down-to-earth student city. Walk around the medieval streets of the old town, grab some lunch, and check out Innsbruck’s landmark Golden Roof and Royal Palace. Catch a glimpse of the impressive Olympic Ski Jump, used in both the 1964 and 1976 Winter Olympics.

Countries in Europe may seems to be so close to each other and at a glance looks similar, but they are not. I'm amazed how they can be so different, the shapes of their historical or modern buildings, their local dish, clothes, art and even almost everything. Like I know I'm in which country not just because of their language but the people too. German people are more practical, while the people in Austria are more lay back and hmm, countryside, the Italians are warmer and more approachable than the Parisian in French. It is an experience that brings that sense of awe in me. 


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And back to Innsbruck, it is famous for it's Sachertorte too at Cafe Sacher, a very yummy chocolate cake served with a fresh cream on the side. Suitable for those who loves dark chocolate and it's history since 1832 by Franz Sacher. Inside the cafe there's a lot of famous people around the world has visited this not so big cafe, it is much smaller than most cafes in Jakarta but I get a goosebumps while in there, some very famous people has sit on the same chair as I am, wow!

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With it's signature coin sized chocolate made the mark the thick chocolate play a contrast to the beautiful cake under it.
Without staying overnight we're back on the coach, take it easy and watch the world go by as we wind through the Bavarian Alps and the Brenner Pass to Italy, land of passion!

We're in Venice, Italy.

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Known as the “floating city”, Venice is packed with character, crammed with hidden lanes and linked by a network of canals.
Using a private boat through the waters of the lagoon to visit the city’s historical heart. The limestone Bridge of Sighs, the Gothic arches of the Doge’s Palace and the expanse of St. Mark’s Square (pigeons and all!) show off Venice’s unique beauty and way of life.
Take some time to explore the floating city and lose ourself in the backstreets. There’s an optional walking tour where we discovered the labyrinth of interweaving lanes, waterways, palaces, piazzi and markets with our Local Guide. See the historic monuments, hidden treasures and the Rialto market – a local favourite for food shopping.
We enjoy some local delicasies on St. Mark’s Square and eat some delicious Italian food al fresco. The espresso there is a must try! And the pizza? It is exactly like they say, we haven't eat the real pizza like the ones in Italy.

Tips: never get full in one cafe or restaurant during traveling, since you'll never know what's next, it could be a very famous dessert or drinks, as for me, I found the espresso to be a gem, real fragrant and suitable for a die hard coffee fan in one cafe and pizza in another.
Cap off the day with a gondola ride &  we share this amazing experience with our friends from around the world - seeing Venice from on the water is unforgettable!

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Red nose? It's really cold there. Perhaps it's due to the near-to-the-water, so the damp air made the cold temperature feels worst, like I'm dryly soak in the freezing air.

Despite of the cold, nothing keeps me away from strolling around and look for goodies to be found, one particular souvenir from Venice is their masks.

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And it's not just that, it turns out Venice does act like a true shopping paradise, tax free and full of sales post new year.

One of the most iconic store, the Disney Store also located right in the heart of Venice. Oh and did you know that no car nor motorcycle is allowed in Venice? It is for walking only. The weight from vehicles can make Venice sink faster than they already do. The government try to keep them floats, they already spent billions of dollars and will keep doing it to make sure it stays above the ground water.

We walked to the small streets and find this small eatery that sells a slice of pizza for 2 euros, it is not a huge restaurant, just a tiny eatery kept by a man and woman around 60-70 years old. We have a chat and it turns out this is their first time talking to someone from Indonesia, they asked me what's my country look like and I asked them about Venice. We shared small stories and you know what?! We found ourselves not much of a difference. In the end, it's all about family. We shared the same value about life, how we should never take things for granted and enjoy the smallest thing that God gave us everyday.


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Dreams do come true, isn't it?! It's always been my dream to visit Europe.

Tips on walking in Venice, use your walking shoes instead of heels since the city doesn't provide any public transportation, so you really have to walk everywhere and not all the streets are paved. Regarding restrooms, there are paid restrooms like most cities in Europe but you have to pay around 1-2 Euros, so anytime you stop by at the cafes or restaurants, make sure to visit the loo before you go.


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Our one day one night adventure at Venice has to over, we continued our journey on the next day by bus.

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Catch a glimpse of stunning Lake Como as we make our way into the massive Swiss Alps.
With covered wooden bridges, cobbled lanes and quaint buildings, Lucerne’s centre is perfect to explore on foot. Also to stock up on lots of genuine Swiss chocolate! Our Tour Manager gave us pointers on where to pick up the best-priced watches that Switzerland is so famous for.

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Then we walked around the city and got caught up with the beautiful surrounding. It was also snowing that day, we love the atmosphere here, so peaceful and serene.

Tips on walking outdoor. Always put layers instead of one giant coat, by putting layers of attire it would be more effective in keeping ourselves warm. Invest in a good invention that provide heat tech technology, it might be super thin, but it packed a punch by keeping us warm better than thicker material.


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Lucerne is a great place for shopping too, even with the heavy snow fall later on. It's still very convenient to walk here and there. Bring an umbrella when snowing as when it touches us, eventually, they'll melt and we'll get wet.

We kept wandering around while paying attention at the locals, they all walk in ease, and after asking here and there, I found this city to be super safe. We stayed in a Jail Hotel, it is once a jail alright but have to closed down due to no 'visitors' as in the low criminal rate made the prison empty. So they turned it into a hotel. Isn't it cool?! I hope someday my country can be as safe as this one.


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Again, it is best to use your walking shoes here, the road is not made to be a runway ^__^

I can find just about anything in Lucerne, from famous clothing attire, cosmetic brands to irresistible sweets. I found out that sour powder sweets are a big hit here, I can find it almost everywhere. It comes in many flavors. I prefer my sweets to be sweet, not sour thou'.

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Oh gosh, the scenic view here is beyond words, it's a small city but overlook at the image above where me and my sister is at one of the bridge, actually the one whose taking a picture is standing on the famous Chapel Bridge. Behind us, a majestic castle.

Tips: It never hurt to learn about the places you're going to so you wont missed a spot. When traveling alone (without joining a tour) always plan everything in details, like which train or bus you should take, which bus stop and their timetable.
Last but not least, learn a few words of their language, a simple 'thank you', 'excuse me', 'please help me', 'English please' or 'can you show me where the restroom', will definitely be handy and even thou most of the people around the world does speaks English, you might won their heart by at least trying to speak like native.


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Guess which country we will be heading to? Clue: Crepes.

Yes, it's Paris, France.

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Tonight, the whole group kick-starts Paris with the 'Tour of Illuminations', which shows off the French capital’s transformation into the “City of Lights”. Lamp-lit bridges and cool little cafés give us a real taste of Paris’ romance. The Tour Manager filled us in on the world’s most-recognised monuments, like the Eiffel Tower and the Arc de Triomphe.
Then, a stunning view of the entire city with included entry to the top of the Eiffel Tower. Oui, oui, Paris!

We
see the Eiffel Tower, Arc de Triomphe, the Louvre, the Champs-Élysées, and Notre Dame Cathedral

The Notre Dame Cathedral looks so scary and kinda Gothic, they say they made it that way to scare the demons.

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The iconic, Eiffel Tower, it lights up every hour and don't be surprise when it glows with different colors and movement. During Valentine, you might find it beaming in pink.

Truth need to be told, I'm not expecting much from Paris, I thought the whole city is overrated, I was so wrong, it was surreal, and the minute I saw Paris, I understood the whole big fiasco. The city is beyond beautiful, artistic, elegance and I do feel the love there, like who doesn't want to spend their honeymoon here?!

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Then our bus spin around the Arc de Triomphe, a national monument where car accidents happen like almost every time. The only place in the world where insurance have 50-50 policy where in every accident both parties is at fault. We do witness a very interesting incident there, no one wants to take turns and the car next to us bumped into the one in front of him. Then the car in front, reverse her car and bumped back, yikes!
Next up: Fragonard! This perfumery has an elegant interior and is a unique setting for a look into the history of perfume. It’s also a chance to pick up some French perfume at great prices.

Oh I did enjoy my time at Fragonard, I can't resist all those beautiful scents. They also taught us about the Nose and how it become the job with the highest salary there. The Nose can not eat spicy food, have to keep their lifestyle super healthy, do not smoke nor have their smelling sense compromised.

France is all about perfume, but perfume is not all they got.
This town is loaded with possibilities. Discover its many bistros, museums, tree-lined avenues and diverse quartiers (neighbourhoods). Get a feel for French flair by window shopping on the Left Bank. Step into the Notre Dame or explore the endless galleries of the Louvre, where you can get up close to the famous Mona Lisa. In your free time, try indulging in some delicious pastries and relax in one of Paris’ many city parks.

Parks? We do visited one of the most famous 'park' in the world, the Disneyland themed park.

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A place where we can be a kid again, where we all sing, "it's a small world after all, it's a small world after all, it's a small world after all, it's a small, small, worldddd" ^___^ 


So there it is, my adventure in Europe, where I see historical majestic buildings that aged more than 200 years, where I drank the German beers and sang Hofbrauhaus-Lied and swing the glass with the locals, where I ate the famous cake, where I hear folk songs and stories, where I see the steins with actual pieces from the Berlin walls, where I bought a traditional dress for my daughter and found out it was made in China (LOL), where I meet a bunch of people without looking at our skin colors, race, or even religion, but smiled at each other and have a toast, where I laugh out loud listening to the local tour guide explaining how lame a mullet is when he's the one with the mullet, where I actually walk on the street of Paris, where I see the fluffiest and whitest snow falls from the sky furiously, where I almost got pickpocket in the subs of Paris, where I witness the scenic Mt Alpine, where I breathe the cold crisp air, where I got lost during a trip to Versailles because I overslept in the train, where I heard a friend of us whose from South Africa pronounced chicken in Bahasa Indonesia as 'ah-yum', where I know, my life would not be the same after traveling, where everything become more colorful, richer, better, inspiring and beautiful. That's what travel do to me, it made me more alive.

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So, bring out your 'appetite' and explore the world!



berpartisipasi dalam "EAT and Travel With B Blog" Competition

Monday, June 16, 2014

Carnellin's 101 on Expecting, Preparing and Caring Babies


Hello everyone,

It's been a while since I want to make this post, I've keep delaying it due to numerous endless things to do around the house, yes! Having a baby can be overwhelming, especially for new moms, so I'm making this post hopefully in some ways or another, help moms to be or new moms in their up and coming life.

Please do take note that, I'm NOT an expert, this is purely a post made by a mom of two and based on experiences.

Let's start with CONGRATULATIONS!!!

The first thing that started it all is you're married (well, hopefully) and like most people in our so-called eastern society is those endless questions of, now you're married, when are you going to have a baby?

The thing is it could be as easy as the first night or years after the first night. In my case, my first born is 9 months after the wedding reception and the second one is 9 years later, after miscarriage and an ectopic surgery. So, the variables of having a baby is endless, so please let me say it for the second time, CONGRATULATION on being knocked off! Seriously, congrats!

Now, for skincare during pregnancy, I've made that post before, so I'm not going to go there again, this is more to the things related to babies. You may already know about the do's and don'ts from your gynae, like no sex for the first 3 months (yes, you've pregnant already, so probably the doctors think that there's no need in confirming...............JOKING, it's related to the health issue). Don't eat raw food, especially meats and eggs.

Don't go through procedure that will harm the baby inside you, like a die hard roller coaster, bungee jumping, or chemically die your hair during certain trimester, always check your gynae for that.

Now, you've done all that and your in the bridge of the third trimester (7 months) everything is well and you're excited, good! You need those energy in preparing all the things for the baby and you. Let's go shopping!!! Here are the things that helps me and the baby heaps:

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Buy all baby proof products, like latex bed, latex pillow, and make your house as dust free as possible. I know it's hard, but newborns can be sensitive, you really don't want to go back and forth to the hospital complaining about sniffles while the problems actually lies in the house itself. I'm getting my self an air purifier from Sharp for the whole house.

As troublesome as a meticulous can be, once you get used to it, it would be pretty much a habit and your new standard of life. However, you might not get the same ideas as your spouse or other kid or even your parents do. Like when you put a strict policy in washing the hands with soap before touching the baby, imagine having to say those words to your not-so-approachable in laws. Yikes! So prepare sanitizers, alcohol, or anti bacterial wipes for those whose not really a friend of water and soaps (I seriously don't know why, but some people are just like that, like their afraid of water or soap @__@').

Hygiene is very important, and most of all the cleanliness for everything that goes into the baby's mouth. Like bottles, get those steamer, sterilizer or liquids that are made for them. Get a high quality one, the ones that BPA free and completely safe going through so many heats in a day, same goes with the bottles, nipples and other accessories. I'm not planning in bottle fed my baby since the first born in 100% breastmilk only, but somehow the second one need bottle fed with formula. It is much troublesome than breastmilk, I need to get the right bottle, right nipple, and the right formula. The combination is endless, so for all of you who can breast fed their babies without formula, again, congratulations!

I just found out that my baby hates the nipple from medela. It is pricey and my baby prefer pigeon more. And do you know we need to get the right nipple? S may not be suitable for baby who prefer size SS. Yes, there's SS for newborn. The choice of bottles also varied, from the current trend Dr. Browns (which I own a set) to Chicco. My tips on this is don't buy them in bulk, try several bottles and nipples first as your baby may be picky or have different needs.

The formula, aside from baby's personal taste, there are lactose intolerant and allergies too. Some babies may be sensitive to dairy, some need soy based, and some need lactose free formula. The result, I mean feces also differs, the best feces is golden yellow, some baby that drinks certain formula has green colored feces, these condition appeared to be normal. The yellow pale or white ones are the ones that need urgent intervention by the doctors, remember to consult with them for ANY inquiries, no question is dumb enough, when you feel worried, google up when you can't contact your doctor. I found it helpful during wee hours.

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Now, for the moms, regarding breastfeeding, we need proper bra to do so. I'm still breastfeeding my baby too, so even thou the baby needs extra from the formula, don't just give in, still encourage the baby to drink the breastmilk directly from the breast, and a good bra helps. No. 1 is a cheaper bra I bought from a market and No.2 is a pricey one from a Dept. Store, guess what the No.1 is a clear winner. The thickness of the cup protects the sensitive nipples from after breastfeeding, the bra also equipped with a clip for a one hand operation, imagine you have to hold your baby and you need to open or close the bra, this is a great help for moms on a go too.

No.2 is a pricey one that cost twice the first one, it was terrible. The hook need to be operated with both hands and the thinness of the cup is a cruelty for sensitive nipples. Try before buying them okay and yes, nursing bra is a great help and I do recommend nursing mom to get at least a couple pair. Don't forget a nursing apron too if you're going out. Running to the nearest restroom or a place for babies in the mall can be troublesome, don't expect those places to be always clean, unoccupied, and ready to be used. Sometime I found them too crowded, even with dads too, not hygienic and locked by the cleaner. So it is better to be prepared to breastfeed the baby with the help of a nursing apron, or a big scarf, overall, and well, just keep the option open by using anything that wide and covering enough.

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Mom on the go or having more supply than demand, congratulations again!!! Heehee, I've tried using my hands, manual pump and my favorite and most effective than any of other method, the electric pump. However, this is a personal choice, it is better to try whichever suitable for you. A tips from me and a consultant breast surgeon in Royal Taruma hospital (dr. Alfiah A) is never massage the breast too hard, always gently massage them and when pumping too. When you do it correctly you shouldn't feel pain at all.............however that doesn't apply to the nipples, brace yourself, it is very painful at first. You may even see blood. I've been there, done that and still doing it. I've tried many methods, many nipple cream and products, only this works.

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Lansinoh nipple cream that doesn't need washing. Anytime I need the soothing comfort and protecting shield on the nipple, I just a apply it a bit. When the baby needs me, I don't have to wash it off, but it doesn't mean I'm not cleaning the nipples or showering ya. I still maintain general hygiene. Almost other creams and methods need to be washed off before the baby can drink on the milk. Based on experience and what I can find, only Lansinoh and Dr. Brown's Nipple Cream that doesn't need to be washed off. Why is not washing off important? Imagine a very sensitive and even wounded nipples need to be washed several times in a day, it is so painful and you still need to let your baby sucked your nipples too. Lansinoh provided a protection to your wounded nipples, heals them and gives the comfort you need without harming the baby.

*Lansinoh contains lanolin, not suitable for babies whose allergic to lanolin. 

Will the pain be forever? Nope, only the first month and when the baby is teething.

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Now, these are the things I found useful, but not as must have. The Momby feeding seat (above), is a great help for me during bottle feeding. It helps me making sure that the back bone is supported well and getting the right angle (45 degree). It can be used during breastfeeding too but I prefer using those nursing pillow instead.

Downside, for newborns that are under 60 cm, the length might be too long, tips? Used a dense pillow on the baby's bottom.

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Same goes with bathe time, newborns can not use their bath tub yet, this item above is sold everywhere now and suits the needs perfectly. We can use both hands to clean the baby without worrying of being too slippery or not holding them right. Trust me, soap + wet babies equals very very slippery.

In the market now there's also many clothe and sponges sold for babies now, there are actually quite a lot, for me I'm always stick to the baby, buy the soft and skin friendly one so their delicate skin wont be irritated.

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Same goes with the products used, avoid paraben at all cost and sls too. A lot of products on the market right now still contain both or one of the ingredients mentioned. Chicco baby toiletries are free from both paraben and sls. I dislike the scent but so far that's the only brand I found to be free from both paraben & sls and not so expensive. Yes, there are many organics formula that cost 10x as Chicco does. 

Mom also need skincare, for me, it is best to use baby-proof products, don't kiss the baby while using an anti acne product that contain that nasty acid, or hugging them after applying a firming lotion that are super effective, to keep it save, I'm using a skincare that are mild and only provide moisture with ingredients that are well known to be safe during pregnancy, and body lotion? Baby lotion is better. 

During breastfeeding period, I also sweats a lot, like I'm a furnace making milk for baby all the time, so I do take showers like 3-4 times a day, hence, a gentle cleanser is needed for me, so my skin doesn't get overly dry. I really like keeping myself clean because of the baby. This goes for everyone in the house, after going out, it is best to take a shower before holding/touching the baby to wash away everything from germs to air borne viruses and don't forget to change  to clean clothes too.

If anyone is sick in the house a mask would be helpfull but a safe distance is always better. For me, I prefer everyone is healthy and avoid going out when it is not important, that's why I'm not going to any events anytime soon. 

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Clothing wise for the baby? Don't buy too much as they grow so fast. A good quality clothing is soft and durable, making them long wear and suitable for the growing babies, don't buy anything that feels rough and not stretchable, a good weaving methods helps the clothe to be a bit stretchy, so baby's hand or legs can easily slip on the sleeves and holes.

Diapers, oh well, I've tried those natural non disposable ones, and it s super duper troublesome. I know it is greener but if it takes hours away from my deprived sleeping time, I rather choose the biodegradable disposable diapers if possible.

Yes, sleeping is definitely a privilege. In fact, anything is a privileged to be able to take a long shower, a bath, toilet break or even a proper meal. It is normal to feel exhausted, my suggestion is to take it easy, eat and sleep whenever you can, say good bye to TV, surfing the net, and even malls for a while. This job can be so demanding but the rewards may be beyond expectation.

Now, you're still pregnant? Buy everything you can, even everything that the baby may need for the first 12 months because you might never know when you can go shopping again heehee.